How to Father

Breaking the Cycle: The importance of Black Fatherhood with Cody Flenoury

In this episode we talk about black fatherhood and the importance it plays in the rows of our, families communities and society! We talk about the statistics that show the lack of father involvement and how we can break the generational curses of that! Cody also touches on raising his teenage daughter and son as a single day all the while maintaining a healthy relationship with their mom as to be an example for his kids when they grow up. 

Put me in coach: How coaching shapes kids lives especially our own with Alex Tena

On this episode we go in depth on the importance of the role coaches play in our lives, or even just as dad examples to other kids and the affect it has on them. We also discuss the expectations we have on our own kids as we coach them in sports and how that helps shape them in life! 

Doctors Couch: Paternal blueprints and the psychological affects with Dr. Natasha Najar

In this episode we touch on the psychological affects of fatherhood and how the historical blueprint of paternal instincts is'nt always the right way to father and how we can evolve from the old ways of doing things. 

Mid Season Recap: Future episodes, and groundbreaking news!

Episode five is a midseason recap on what I have learned thus far and news of the next exciting 5 episodes and topics, as well as some ground breaking news that my family has just received and how my fatherhood experience is directly involved with it! 

Keeping the Faith : Home School, Christ, and Five Kids! With Sky Carlisle

This episode features another wonderful father Mr. Sky Carlise! We  talk about life with 5 kids all under 7 years old and homeschooling them all the while allowing them to experience life interactions outside of home, while maintaining their faith base. As well as the different values and expectations he has for his Daughters and Sons and the roles they play in their daily family routines now and how we as parents would want our kids to trust us with everything especially when they grow into teens and adults. 

Finding the Root: Growing up in Philly to being a dad out West with Ted Farnath

In this episode I have the first of many guests, my good friend Ted Farnath. Talking about growing up South Jersey and Philly in a split household to raising to wonderful boys in SF and ABQ! We touch on our childhood's as well as how raising one kid was so much different when we both had our second, to the acknowledgment and power of seeing where our kids are at instead of brining them to where we think they should be, with their emotions. 

Meet me: Who am I and why did I start this podcast with Troy Rivas

The first episode is a small glimpse in my life and why I am who I am, and why I Father the way I Father! 

How To Father Introduction

Intro episode on the journey of How to Father!